I reiterate that I'm not advocating for the legality of "blatant and obtuse language/topics." Read the above post.
~ @metr0n0me
I wasn't referring to you. There is blame on both sides, really.
You have children who push the limits just to push the limits, which triggers a harsher and harsher respond by the moderation team.
The solution is: Staff need to ease up and let the atmosphere be enjoyable, even if it's a little harsher for people to read. Kids need to stop thinking they have to be vulgar and curse. It doesn't matter if MeepCraft isn't a classroom, bible study, ..., ...
It's a business with customers, and one should try to let the customers have their way as much as reasonably possible. Is prohibiting someone talking about Greek Mythology (just an example) worth limiting your customer? Is stopping some brief history discussion worth hassling your customers over, especially if nobody gets hurt?
Quite frankly, though, it's their server and they can do what they wish with it, they do the work. However banning is literally the most destructive punitive action to use, because it removes customers.