I'm opening my life somewhat to the Meepcraft community right now in an effort to release some steam and maybe get some answers.
Last year I dated a girl for a few months, shes the best person I've ever met and were so much alike and into the same things that it's scary. About a week and a half ago, she said she had liked me again, which was the biggest form of relief I've ever experienced, because there hadn't been a time since I met her that I didn't think the same. We've hung out a ton over the snowstorm vacation days, watched Star Wars, played Wii, did bad family guy impressions to make each other laugh, I hadn't experienced such a weird feeling of happiness in my life. I was in my car, ready to drive off when I said "No" and went back inside to talk to her. If i hadn't said anything then I know I'd just go home and text her about it anyway. She said she's scared shes going to hurt me, and "I don't have commitment issues, but I'm scared of commitment." and sent me off without trying again even though our feelings are still super strong for each other. I went home last night and looked up commitment phobia for hours, and a lot of things said to just give up and let them be- that's not going to happen in this case.
So I'm reaching to you Meep, do you now someone who had commitment phobia or do you have/had it? I need some solutions or ideas here, cause this means a lot to me.